Adding some spice in your sex life is not only about trying out new sex toys or positions with your partner – it can go beyond that – how about having an orgasm in public?
It might sound weird or downright ‘off’ to you if you haven’t really experimented with your sexual fantasies yet. However, even the most shy women enjoy having orgasms in public, whether alone or with their partner.
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Seek the help from the Right Sex Toy
First things first, having the right sex toy would make things easier. Remember, we’re talking about a public place here, so you can’t have a big toy as it will get you unnecessary attention from passersby.
A remote control pocket vibrator like the Lovense Lush 3 is a good choice for public orgasms. It applies just the right sort of pressure to your G-spot and remains in place, no matter how intense the vibrations are.
Or you can also buy one of the wearable vibrators that perfectly fit under your panties and inside your vagina, without you getting noticed by onlookers.
Ways to Have an Orgasm in Public
Whether you’re with your partner or not, there is no reason you can’t have a ‘happy’ and orgasmic moment in public.
Here are some of the ways how you can do that:
The ‘Self-love’ Moment at the Park
Whether it’s your morning workout, a quick run or it’s time to walk the dog, being at the park is always fun and refreshing. Guess what.. You can make it even more exciting if you have your favorite sex toy with you.
Yes, there will be other people around you, but they’ll be too busy with their own physical activities to notice what you’re up to. If you have one of those pocket or wearable vibrators, you’ll hardly catch anyone’s attention.
Obviously, we’re not suggesting loud moans or anything, but once you switch on the vibrations of your sex toy and slowly start to stimulate your clitoris, you’ll orgasm the same way you do in your bed. And once you do, we bet that you’d want to be back for another orgasmic moment!
Orgasm While Tanning
Beach is another spot where you can achieve a perfect orgasm, with or without your lover. Beach is usually a crowded place, but you can always find a sweet spot where you plan to lie down for a tan.
If you’re lucky and it’s a rough sea, the sound of the waves will even nullify the sound of your moans, if you’re unable to hold them inside or if your sex toy is making you go crazy.
Even if you’re with your partner, you can still go naughty by giving him the control of your vibrator. The modern-day vibrators come with all the bells and whistles – bluetooth connectivity, customizable vibration patterns, vibration speed control, etc. So give him the control and enjoy an ‘orgasmic tan’ at the beach!
In Front of the Big Screen
Your favorite actor doing a steamy scene with a co-star can make you wet in no time. Once, there was a woman who reportedly orgasmed twice while watching her favorite actor, Tom Hiddleston, doing a sex scene with another actress.
If you’re in the mood for a public orgasm, while keeping yourself as discreet and hidden as possible, try playing with your sex toy at a cinema next time.
And yes, it can get equally exciting and kinky with a partner as well. Let him control the vibrations and if he can improvise by syncing the vibrations with the movie on the screen, you will have an amazing orgasm.
Getting Wet in a Swimming Pool
A pool is one of those public places where your body can remain submerged under water, while your vibrator does it’s magic on your clitoris. You even have the freedom to slightly spread or squeeze your legs and pelvic muscles under water, without anyone noticing why you’re really doing that.
And if you’re with a partner, you can even enjoy some on and off fingering while remaining discreet. It will make you go crazy and orgasmic before you even know it!
The Wild Fantasies with Your Crush
We all have had our exciting moments at school, haven’t we? If you’re still in your teens and have a huge crush on one of your batchmates, you can have an amazing orgasm just while looking at him or hearing him talk or give a class presentation.
He doesn’t have to necessarily talk about sex or anything, if you really like him, then any of his action can make you go wet, provided that you let yourself go in that very moment. Don’t worry about the rest of your classmates, if you can control your moans, you’re good.
At Your Favorite Food Place
Hands-free Orgasm Feels Great, Doesn’t It?
Masturbating in the same, traditional way can get monotonous after a while. Yes, you might have a nice room with a comfortable bed, but there are times when women want someone or something else to stimulate their clitoris.
One of the major attractions of having an orgasm in public is the fact that most of the time you won’t be using your hands or fingers for stimulating your sensitive parts. Usually it’ll be your remote control vibrator, but if you have a partner, he or she can be the one controlling your orgasms.
Our Final Word on Orgasm in Public – Just Don’t Get Caught
The bottom line is, you can have an orgasm in public, anywhere anytime!
All you need is a reliable and fully charged sex toy, that won’t give up on you while you’re having YOUR moment! Also, make sure you don’t draw any unwanted attention. Regardless of how shy or bold you feel about your body and your sexual desires, it is never a good idea to do things that might be considered inappropriate in your part of the world.
Remember, some regions and countries have laws in place related to public nudity and sex (including masturbation). In such places, you might end up in jail or have to pay heavy fines if you’re caught having an orgasmic moment in public.
Be discreet and it’ll all be cool! 🙂