Your time in bed can get hotter with some sexy dirty talk. It’s hot and it can actually help you develop more intimacy in your relationship. The added benefits of talking dirty are that it can lower performance anxiety for both of you, and increase sexual self-confidence. Who knew knowing how to talk freaky could work so well!

What Are The Benefits Of Sexy Dirty Talk?

Build Up On Sexual Tension

Many people think sexual talk is limited to just the bedroom. That’s not true. Dirty talk does not have to be reserved for when you’re having sex, but can be used at any (appropriate) time to drop hints for your partner. It can even goad him and you on to looking forward to some sexy times later in the night.

Building sexual tension is quite an aphrodisiac. You’ll find yourself turned on and ready for some hot action. Imagine, just a few words can spice up your sex life. No dead bedroom for you. By the time you’re in the bedroom, you’ll both be raring to go!

Keeps Him Thinking About You

Dropping a few provocative phrases through the day has him thinking of the prize you have in store for him. He’ll be anticipating he can hold you and have a great time. The reverse is also true; if your partner is proficient in dirty talk phrases, you’ll find yourself all fired up for the night.

You don’t have to go overboard with the dirty talk. It’s as easy as using simple, suggestive phrases. While you know what works best for you and your partner, here are a few you could try:

I can’t stop thinking about how great last night was. Let’s do it again tonight!

I want you inside me. All the way in.

Your dick feels amazing inside me.

If you aren’t face-to-face, you could call him. Or better still, text. There is an angle of imagination to texting that gets everyone fired up for more. Plus, if you’ve got time, sexting really is amazing. Here are some dirty talking text messages for him examples you can employ.

I love how you taste. Can’t wait for the evening to get that taste again.

I miss you. And your cock.

I never thought someone could make me so aroused. Then I met you.

Well, you get the point. Be suggestive, be hot, and don’t be afraid to get your point across.

Makes Sex More Intense

While you have dirty talks outside the bedroom, words you say while having sex are what really clinches the matter. Throw around compliments, goad him, challenge him, do whatever works best for you. A bit of sexy banter between the couple feels amazing, believe me. So don’t be afraid to talk dirty, or laugh even as you have sex. Some simple phrases you can use for dirty talk while having sex are:

You feel incredible.

Don’t stop. I’m loving this too much.

I love how your cock feels inside me.

Sexy Dirty Talk For Beginners — How To Get Started

Start Small

If you’ve been relatively quiet in the bedroom up until now, don’t start with pornstar sound effects right off the bat. It’s a mistake several people make, and that phony imitation voice isn’t going to be much of a turn on for your partner, or for you. Don’t start with something that’s too “out there” or unexpected from you. Even a few well-timed sighs and “Yessss” will do if you’ve been very quiet.

Begin In The Bedroom

Sex is practically the best time for losing your dirty talk virginity. It’s easy and natural to introduce the topic while having sex, and won’t feel very out of the ordinary. There’s a good chance you will both enjoy it, and get ready to take things to the next level.

Initiate The Sexy Dirty Talk

Much like initiating sex, the initiation of dirty sexy talk should be a responsibility divided between partners. It’s unhealthy to expect one person to always be the initiator, and that threatens to slowly turn into a burden. Don’t be afraid to be the one to initiate. And if you find he’s backing down, encourage your partner to be the initiator as well.

You can start with something as simple as “that feels so good”, and encourage him to take over the horny talk. If you’re both comfortable with the dirty talk, go ahead and make it as provocative as you like.

Try To Stay Relevant To the Situation

Stay relevant to the situation or moment you’re in. Saying what you’re feeling in the moment will feel far more natural, and have better results. Plus, you won’t be making stuff up as you go along — you want to stay focused on having sex and enjoying it, not on racking your brain and trying to find things you can say.

Tailor It To Your And Your Partner’s Taste

When you talk dirty, stay with things that you are comfortable to say and hear. The same goes for your partner. Once you’ve initiated the sexy dirty talk, it may be a good idea to have a conversation about what topics or phrases are off-limits. You could both also introduce your own fetishes and fantasies to get the most out of the experience. Again, if you are doing fantasies and fetishes, stay true to what you’re both comfortable with.

Similarly, if you know the tastes of your partner well, you can drop phrases that will elicit a response out of him. For example, some people might prefer staying subtle, while others might prefer a direct, or even an outrageous approach. Your flavor is up to you!

Finetune It

These are suggestions, but what really works in your bedroom and in your love-life is entirely how you see things. Experiment, and finetune these suggestions to reach what works best with you. I’ve said it many times. Experimentation and trying out new things is an excellent way to keep your sex life exciting and wonderful. Try not to get predictable or worse, stuck in a routine.

Sexy Dirty Talk — Last Word

Have fun talking dirty to your hot, sexy boy. It might take some confidence and extra encouragement to start, but once you do, you might very well enjoy it. Let’s face it, sexy dirty talk is fun, and who better to share in those intimate feelings and words than your partner?

Anal sex carries a negative connotation of being painful, which makes plenty of people back away from trying it. Anal sex should be pleasurable and painless. Yes, it will take more work than vaginal sex, but with a little care, it should be painless and fun. This guide has great tips for those who intend to try first time anal sex. And you must try anal sex; don’t dismiss something before you’ve given it a shot. So let’s look at some tips and techniques that make anal sex for beginners more fun.

Things To Know Before You Have Anal Sex For The First Time

Plan Before You Have Anal Sex

Anal sex for beginners should not be spontaneous and spur of the moment. Going straight to it will make it painful, and might cause other problems, including bleeding. You have to plan and prepare for anal sex.

Cleaning Up Before Anal Sex

You should clean up, i.e. poop before having anal sex. A majority of people will be fine simply by pooping before they have anal. If you’re unsure that pooping is enough, you can use something like an anal douche, though that is unnecessary. An enema is overkill, and should not be utilized unless necessary, or as part of a fetish.

Lube Up

Here’s the secret to the best anal sex techniques: lube up! The anus isn’t self-lubricating, so using lubricant will help make things easier and smoother. Better the things are, easier will it be to have anal sex. Water-based lube is the simplest option, although it dries up quickly. Silicone-based lube should not be employed if you intend to use silicone-based toys. Oil-based lube is best avoided because it can cause deterioration and tear in latex condoms. Which brings us to the next point.

Do not use products like numbing creams. While no one should be using them (unless medically necessary), they should be a big no for first time anal sex. As you learn the ropes, pain is your friend. It’s better to have a small tinge of pain and know that you should prepare more, rather than not realizing that things have gone wayward before it is too late.

Always Use Condoms During Anal Sex

Even if you are very thorough, there will be a tiny amount of fecal matter still in there. Unprotected anal sex is the reason for several health problems, and carries a greater risk of sexually transmitted diseases. You also risk Hepatitis B, and at the very minimum, a urinary tract infection. Nothing’s worth that kind of risk. Use a condom.

No Double Dipping

Here’s a simple rule of hygiene to remember, whether you’re still learning anal sex or preparing to have anal sex for the first time. Once a condom has been inside the ass, it does not go inside the vagina or mouth. If you’re moving to either of those, change condoms. You will also have to change condoms frequently while having anal sex since it is more taxing on the condom as well.

While I will suggest you try it at least once, do not let yourself get pressured into agreeing for a sex act you do not like.

Use Toys During Anal Sex

Yup, toys are awesome for novices to anal sex. Small toys can open up the world of anal sex to you, preparing your anus for larger toys or the penis, as the case may be. Plus, they can be a lot more fun. If you are male, you can make use of a prostate massager for amazing, and more intense orgasms. While the same benefit is unlikely for women, anal toys can make things more pleasurable and fun.

Anal Training And Stretching

Anal sex techniques like anal training and stretching can help you prepare better for anal sex. The point is to prepare your sphincter for stretching and pressure that penetration brings. The sphincter is a ring of muscles at the tip of the anus that controls the stretching of the anus, and handles the movement of things in and out of the rectum. You will need to do a bit of work to convince these muscles to relax easily during anal sex.

Read the full guide on anal training and stretching.

Having Painless Anal Sex For The First Time

I did say this anal sex tutorial is all about having painless fun times. Here are some simple techniques you can use to make anal painless.

Start With A Finger

As I said, it will take time before your anus is prepared to receive something as large as a penis. Start with inserting a finger into your anus. You should go slow rather than pushing your way through. You can move your finger steadily, stop, or even pull back a bit. It’s all fine as long as you’re comfortable. Gradually, you’ll find your sphincter relaxing around your finger, and it will be easier to move the finger.

At this point, you may start thrusting your finger a bit and create more space. Being slow is key, so don’t imagine your finger working like a piston. Once you are comfortable enough with this, you can add another finger to push things along.

The area most resistant to anal penetration is about 0.5-1 inch inside the anus. Once you’re past this area, you will feel things getting easier as the muscles relax and you start feeling more pleasure.

Your partner can do all the things mentioned in this technique. It may in fact be easier to have your partner handle this. Just be sure that your partner understands that he should stop the moment you say so, and follow your anal sex instructions clearly.

Go Super Slow

This is important for beginners to understand. At no point should you start going fast. It is best to keep a super slow pace, not just for entering, but also while withdrawing. This applies to all cases, whether you’re using a finger, a dildo, or a penis. The speed must be very slow and deliberate.

The Main Event — Anal Sex For Beginners

Once he can insert two fingers in the anus comfortably, you may decide to use three fingers, or just put the penis in action. The general rules stay the same, even with the penis involved. The penetration has to be slow, matched with slow thrusting and slow withdrawal of the penis. You may manage to speed things up after some experience, but beginners should stick to a snail’s pace.

Best Positions For Anal Sex Beginners

Put Him On His Back

Putting him on his back has the advantage of letting you stay in control. This will be a cowgirl-type position where decide on the speed and movement and control the thrusting as you see fit. This can be very helpful for first time anal sex, as you can be sure that you are the one in charge.

Take things slowly and take your time. Going fast can be painful, and may take the fun out of anal sex. If you experience discomfort or pain, slow down and relax. You can also stop for a while and let your anus and sphincter adjust to the size of the penis. Once you are comfortable and sure, you can allow him to start thrusting a bit.

Doggystyle Position For Anal Sex

A doggystyle position works just as well, but this time, your partner will be in charge of inserting and thrusting. Make sure you communicate clearly and your partner understands that he has to listen to you.

Clitoral And Vaginal Stimulation

With anal sex going on, your clitoris and vagina will be all away from action. I bet they would love some stimulation! Get a vibrator in on the act. You could go with a simple, bullet vibrator if clitoral stimulation is all you want, or get more using a g-spot or rabbit vibrator.

If toys aren’t at hand, you could ask him to do it for you, or just try some good old-fashioned masturbation and finger yourself while you have anal sex.

Communicate And Be Clear

Communication is essential for any part of great sex, but it is even more important for anal sex beginners. You should be able to communicate with your partner clearly and make sure he understands all that is going on and is amenable to instructions you offer. Talk about it, and shake things up a bit so you can get more fun out of anal sex.

First Time Anal Sex — Conclusion

Don’t give in to the taboo. Anal sex doesn’t have to be painful or uncomfortable. What you want from your first time anal sex is a painless experience. This guide is intended to be a simple anal sex tutorial for beginners. Make use of it, and add another dimension of fun to your bedroom!

Deep throating is something of a forbidden fruit. It’s a challenge to women, and a desire for men; simply because of how rare it can be. The biggest obstacle in the path of deepthroating is the gag reflex. It is an involuntary reflex and can be triggered if an object travels too far in your mouth. Learning how to deep throat is all about scoring a win over your gag reflex. If you have picked up the challenge of deep throating your man, you should make use of this article as a guide.

Understand The Gag Reflex Before Deepthroating

As I said, the gag reflex is a natural, involuntary reaction. Knowing how to deepthroat means desensitizing your body to the gag reflex. While it has its uses, is something that you can get rid of without any fear. Approximately 37% of the women do not have a gag reflex, and that makes them perfect candidates for deep throating fun.

However, getting over the gag reflex can also be an acquired skill, and you can get it by training your body. With the gag reflex out of the way, deep throating can be fun, easier, pleasurable, and of course, comfortable.

Desensitizing Yourself To The Gag Reflex

Training yourself against the gag reflex can take days, if not weeks. So be patient and don’t expect results immediately. Here are some things to train your gag reflex:

• Start with a phallic object. A dildo is a great choice, but the handle of a toothbrush works just fine as well. Just make sure whatever you choose is sanitary and sterilized.
• Put the object in your mouth and take it towards your throat until your gag reflex is triggered.
• Try to maintain the object in your mouth for about 10 seconds, while simultaneously trying to maintain normal breathing.
• Repeat the above process a couple of times every day for a few days, until you’re confident that you’ve got the gag reflex under control.
• As the days pass, you will see the gag reflex being less pronounced, and you may eventually train yourself to avoid it altogether.

There are plenty of tricks going around for avoiding the gag reflex. In my opinion, that’s a mixed bag, but if you feel something else is more convenient, give it a shot!

What If I Cannot Train My Gag Reflex?

A small percentage of people are unable to control their gag reflex with training, or even more intensive options. In case you are one of these people, it’s better to give up on deep throat oral sex and put your energies elsewhere, like in amazing techniques to give him a blowjob.

Having An Understanding Of Deepthroating And Gag Reflex

Deep throating is taxing for the one performing it. You might find your eyes getting watery, breathing has to be timed, and of course, there’s the gag reflex. It is perfectly okay to say no if you find it too much to handle. Your partner should understand how difficult it is, and be supportive of your decision. If he turns out to be a scumbag who can’t really bother with your problems as long as he gets to stick his dick down your throat, you should consider ways to make him understand.

Deepthroating Basics — What The Man Needs To Do

Now that you’re all set for deepthroating, here’s what the man needs to do: Get an erection. Yep, that’s it. He should not thrust or try to move your head by himself. Setting the pace, deciding the position, and actually doing the act is all up to you. His role is simply to enjoy (with some gratitude) the amazing thing you’re doing for him.

How To Deepthroat By Taking The Right Position

Deepthroating is going to be easier in some positions as compared to others. A great position for deepthroating is one where your mouth and throat are in alignment. Think of the angle sword-swallowers use. If it works with swords, it has to work with a penis, right?

You can try to achieve this by lying down towards the edge of the bed, while he stands over your head with his feet on the floor. Another, relatively simpler position is to lie down on the bed, and he can come your you in a 69-like position.

Breathing And Dealing With Saliva While Deepthroating

As you deepthroat, you may notice your mouth generating a ton of saliva. It is perfectly okay, and indeed works as a natural lubricant. So don’t worry about it, and continue without a worry.

Breathing is a more complex question. It is going to be difficult to breathe while you have a penis going down your throat. Obviously, breathing isn’t negotiable, so you will have to find ways to breathe during deepthroating. Here are some tips you can use:

• Breathe through your nose.
• Slide him out a bit and use that moment to breathe in. Remember, you’re controlling the thrusting and pace here.
• If it gets too uncomfortable, take a break. It doesn’t matter if he’s almost there, breathing comes first.

Deep Throating Tips To Make It More Pleasurable

You haven’t got a handle on how to deep throat until you know how to make it more pleasurable and fun. Going through all that just to put a dick down your throat seems pointless if he isn’t going to get something amazing out of it. Here are some tricks you can employ to make things way more exciting:

Lick His Balls

Once he’s all in, and you’re deepthroating, chances are his balls will be right in front of your chin. Get your tongue out and play with his balls, licking and flicking them with your tongue. The unique angle and unexpected sensation will be quite a turn on for him!

Hum

Hum a song as you are deepthroating him. The vibrations and sensations will excite him, and give him a unique feel. Plus, the humming may keep gagging at bay so you’ll be more comfortable as well.

Use Your Hands

Use your hands for some fun. You can reach your hands around him and hold him by his butts. Or you can place them on his legs or stomach to control the speed and angle of his movement. There’s plenty you can do, including massaging his perineum, fondling his balls, or placing a finger into his anus.

If he finishes while he’s down your throat, it will be a unique, and different feeling for him. It is going to be different for you too, and like everything deep throating, it has its own challenges. In any case, the deep throating would be a job well done.

How To Deep Throat — Conclusion

Deep-throating is difficult and can be uncomfortable. You can try to reduce your gag reflex by training as you learn how to deep throat, but remember that deep throating is tough. Gagging in some degree is going to be inevitable. You should do this only if you want to do it. Don’t let your man force you into deep throating just for the sake of his curiosity. But then again, trying new things can be fun! So take your time thinking and deciding.

Oral sex is practically an essential part of a healthy sex life. You would both like to make sex more fun and enjoyable, you should put oral sex on the same footing. Knowing how to suck dick will go a long way for your intimacy and sex life. And while you’re here, send him off to learn how to eat pussy. Oral sex is wondrous, and you want him enjoying and asking for more. Giving amazing blow jobs is a skill worth acquiring, and I’m here with some simple tips and advice to help you along.

Show Your Enthusiasm For Oral Sex

This really is one of the best blow job techniques. Your man may desperately want a blowjob, but having you simply go through the motions is going to be a turnoff. You being enthusiastic is going to be a massive turn on for him, and make oral sex more enjoyable. Just knowing that you’re into it should be quite a booster for him.

Having an enthusiastic partner is important for both sexes. You wouldn’t enjoy your time with a guy who seems uninterested and is seemingly just going through the motions. The same is true for men too.

Showing enthusiasm also means that you can (and should) often take initiative in giving him a blowjob. Before you ponder on how to suck a penis, know that your enthusiasm and initiative will make a big difference. Being enthusiastic to suck dick holds little meaning if you never offer to do it!

Use Your And His Body

Oral sex doesn’t have to be an exclusive affair between his penis and your mouth. Knowing how to suck dick means going beyond just the literal meaning of the words “oral sex”. Use your hands, lips, cheeks, even get your breasts in on the action. If you want to, then rub his dick against your cheeks, kiss it with your lips, and take it to your breasts and nipples. Men find all of this very hot, and it goes on to show him that you are enjoying it as well.

Using his body is a bit tricky because everyone has different preferences. What one dude finds super hot, could be an absolute turn off for another. Here are a few things to enhance your blowjob technique:

Hold The Base Of His Penis

This is the safest gesture, and almost every man will enjoy it. Use a hand to hold the base of his penis as you give him a blowjob. The base of the penis is somewhat sensitive, and you can apply some pressure here to add to his pleasure. Look for his cues to see how hard of a grip is okay.

Don’t Use Your Teeth While Sucking Dick

Somehow everyone keeps suggesting using teeth, but it’s a big no for most men. Feeling of teeth grating against the penis is in no way enjoyable. At best, you should try a touch-and-go maneuver, where you bring the teeth to the penis, and then get them out of their way. Unless you know his preferences intimately, teeth should have no business in sucking dick.

Fondling His Balls

A lot of men enjoy the feeling of the woman fondling or kissing their testicles during a blow job. A good number of men are also turned off by the idea of bringing their balls into contact.

Communicate And Talk It Out

Similar ideas as previous points also apply to deep throating and facials. The easiest way around this is to talk. Communicate with your partner, ask him if he’s okay with (or specifically wants) any of the things mentioned. Also be on the lookout for verbal and non-verbal cues. If you reach for his balls and he shirks, that’s a no on ball fondling.

Fixing The Taste

There’s a small chance that enthusiastic as you may be about sucking dick, the taste may simply not be to your liking. There is no point in trying to power through, especially when there are tons of simpler solutions available. You can slather his penis is flavored lube, and use that for fixing the taste. Well, lube isn’t the most delicious thing around, but it will do the trick.

Another (better) way of fixing taste is to simply use a delicious item. Maple syrup and chocolate syrup seem to be hot favorites, so play with them and you won’t worry about how to suck dick that doesn’t taste right. One reminder, if you are using something edible, avoid having penetrative sex after that. Having edible items inside the vagina can increase the risk of issues like yeast infection.

Now that the taste has been fixed, what should you do if the dick smells as well? Throw him into the shower, and ask him to clean up properly if he wants to get his dick sucked.

How To Suck Dick — Focus On The Tip

The tip of the penis (head of the penis) is the most sensitive part and the one that you need to focus on stimulating. You don’t have to vigorously reach for the head of the penis. Instead, massage it gently with your lips as you go up and down the shaft. You can also run your tongue over it occasionally and flick the bottom of the tip with your tongue for added pleasure. Mix it up a bit, and see how he reacts. If your action gets a positive reaction, well, continue to suck dick with your technique.

The closer he gets to an orgasm, the more sensitive the tip gets. So if you think he is close to an orgasm, slow down a bit and reduce the pressure on the tip ever so slightly. You will still want to continue the action until he climaxes, but reducing the pressure could make things easier for him as the tip gets more sensitive.

Super Blowjob Tip — Lick, Lick, And Lick Some More

Use The top of your tongue to lick his penis while focusing on the tip. You’ll want to keep a gentle but steady pressure. Another method is to lick from the base of his penis to the tip. Put your tongue at the base of his penis, then lick towards the top. Linger at the tip a bit, then repeat. While you’re licking his penis, you may also want to use your hands to massage his perineum (or taint, the area between the anus and testicles).

If he’s into anal play, you can use a finger to play with his anus. Just massage it, and if he’s okay with it, you can also insert the finger into his anus.

Look Into His Eyes

Most men love it when women maintain eye contact while sucking their penis. This is a very simple blow job trick that will have him more excited and deeper into the mood. Looking into his eyes as you give him a blowjob creates an intense and intimate feeling. Don’t overdo it though! It can be weird to stare at him for the whole duration of the blowjob. Keep your eye contact limited to a few seconds at a time, and then break eye contact and continue with the blow job.

To Swallow Or Not To Swallow

There’s the age-old problem with sucking dick — to swallow or not to swallow. There are plenty of ways around this problem, and you can check what works best for you.

The simplest situation is where you’re okay with swallowing, and the blowjob can proceed uninterrupted as he cums and you swallow.

You could be okay with him cumming inside your mouth, but prefer not to swallow. Spitting it back at him probably won’t do (unless it’s your kink, of course), it will be helpful to have a couple of tissues at hand where you can spit out the semen.

What To Do If You Don’t Want Him To Cum In Your Mouth?

Now, this is a bit of a tricky situation. The easiest way out is that he tells you when he’s about to cum and you stop sucking dick and remove it from your mouth. Some men tend to go nonverbal when close to climax, so you could both have a signal where he taps on your shoulder or head to let you know if it’s time. It is helpful to know his body language, so you can have an idea of when he’s ready to cum.

As you remove your mouth from his penis before he cums, keep in mind, he will need extra stimulation to climax. You can replace your mouth with your hand, and lead him to climax.

Another option is to let him cum over your body. You may achieve this with your own hand while giving him a handjob, or let him take control as you remove your mouth from his dick.

There are plenty of places where you can direct his cum, and it of course depends on the position you were in during oral sex. Some common options are:

• Letting him cum on your face (a facial)
• Letting him cum on your breasts or stomach
• If you were in a doggy position during the blow job, you can let him cum on your neck (pearl necklace)

How To Suck Dick — Parting Words

Knowing how to suck dick will not only give your man amazing, toe-curling orgasms, but it can also help improve the quality of your sex life. Better still, it increases the intimacy of your relationship. Being skilled in some blowjob techniques can make the experience better. Oral sex is pleasurable and amazing, and you should both be generous and open to giving, as well as receiving oral sex.

Everyone loves oral sex; so if you want to please your lady, it is time you learned cunnilingus. Learning how to eat pussy will make your lovemaking sessions more intimate, pleasurable, and fulfilling. Plus, you’ll get to add another dimension of intimacy to your bedroom as you show off amazing oral sex positions as she writhes with pleasure. While I may specifically reference males as the givers (those performing cunnilingus), this guide is relevant to anyone learning to eat pussy.

Know Her Anatomy

You’re not going to achieve much by eating pussy if you don’t know her body. You have to find the little man in the boat because that’s what you’ll be targeting. Eating pussy is not a literal term, so don’t make a beeline for shoving your tongue up her vagina (yes, some people mistakenly think that’s how it works). You have to know where her clitoris is, and that’s what you will be stimulating. The clitoris is located slightly above her vagina, right where the inner labia meet. It is covered by a small tissue, called the clitoral hood.

The clitoris is one of the most sensitive parts of the female body and must be stimulated during oral sex. The vaginal opening has a lot of nerve endings, and stimulating it can be pleasurable. However, if the clitoris is not seeing any action, your attempts at eating pussy aren’t going to give her an orgasm. If you’ve found the clitoris, good work, now it’s time to learn how to eat a pussy like a pro.

Build Up To Eating Pussy — A Sensual Start

Don’t rush in there. Take your time, go slow and build up to oral sex.

Start With A Tease Before You Eat Pussy

Work your way to going down on her. Start with kissing her on the lips, then slowly move down to kiss her neck, and then reach the breasts. Spend some time on the breasts and nipples, then move down – kissing all the way till you reach her panties.

Kiss the Mons pubis from over her panties, then gently spread her legs. You aren’t going to remove the panties just yet. Take your time caressing her erogenous zones and building up the tension before you remove the panties.

Continue kissing through the panties, and give attention to her vulva and vagina. You can use your lips to squeeze the vulva and vagina. Run your tongue over the vagina and clitoris, maintaining a nice, gentle speed and pressure.

Now move down one of her legs, kissing the inner thigh. This is an erogenous zone, and you could go as far as the knee. However, sensation decreases the further you go from the vagina, so it’s best to stop after a few inches. Return your mouth to the panties while you continually kiss along the inner thigh. Use similar movements to make your way down the other leg.

Take Off The Panties And Prepare To Eating Pussy

Place your fingers on either side of the panties, and slowly pull them off until you’ve completely removed them. Some people also like to remove the panties by holding the top in their mouth and pulling all the way down. It’s a very sensual, but risky maneuver. Risky in the sense that if you don’t pull it off right, you look like an idiot tugging at panties with his mouth. Fingers are far more convenient, but if you can pull off using your mouth to remove panties, go for it!

With the panties out of the way, now start touching and kissing around her vagina and clit. You can make some contact with the vagina and clit, but full attention is still a few seconds away.

Eating Pussy Like A Pro

Enough with the teasing and waiting, time to eat pussy! There are two basic positions for cunnilingus, and once you’ve got a handle on these, you can use them individually or in a combination to pleasure her.

Use Your Tongue

This technique is more about how to lick pussy, and a lot of women love it. To start, stick your tongue out of your mouth. Angle it towards your chin, and let it stay flat. That’s basically all your tongue is going to do with this technique. Don’t move your tongue, don’t angle it, just let it rest in the simple position it is in.

Your head is going to do all the work in this method. Place your tongue at the bottom of her vulva and move it upwards until you hit the clitoris. Go back down to the bottom of the vulva and repeat. In this technique, the larger surface area of the tongue provides her with ample stimulation, so your tongue should stay flat.

This method allows you to easily manipulate pressure. Look for her verbal and non-verbal cues, and adjust the pressure you’re applying. You don’t have to put much pressure, stay gentle and continue with the firm caress using your tongue. The same goes for speed as well. Go slow or fast depending on her preference, and you’ll see her edging closer and closer to the orgasm.

If things go well, you can stay close to the clitoris and move your tongue sideways, forward, or in circles. She may just prefer you to keep up the full motion though, so be very careful about non-verbal cues.

Use Your Lips To Eat Pussy

This technique is all about your lips. Put your lips in a somewhat pouting position and create an “O” shape with them. The overall technique is quite similar to what non-contact clitoral vibrators like the Womanizer Pro employ. But of course, you can do it better because you’ve got more than suction at your disposal.

Put your lips around her clitoris, and gently start sucking on it. This action will pull the clitoris up into your mouth. If it doesn’t that’s okay too. Don’t turn into a vacuum cleaner insisting that the clit should be in your mouth. You can now slowly release the clitoris, then repeat. Adjust the speed of your sucking and releasing to see which one she responds best to, then get working on it.

Once you know your way around, try more variations. For example, when her clit is in your mouth, you can use your tongue to massage it a bit before you release it. Or, use the tip of your tongue on her clit, and then use the lips to suck the clit into your mouth, and massage it with your tongue again.

Mix It All Up

You don’t have to stick with one technique or the other. Start with them if you are a beginner, but find more variations. The tongue is one of the most powerful muscles in the body. Use it the way she likes it. If she wants pinpointed stimulation, use the tip of your tongue. Many women profoundly enjoy the top of the tongue circling the clitoris and massaging it.

Use your lips to move things around. Experiment, and keep things lively. You can also add another dimension of excitement by using specific oral sex positions that work best for her.

At no point in any pussy eating technique should your teeth come in contact with her clitoris or vagina. It’s not sexy, it’s painful, and it’s a terrible thing to do to her. The best way to eat pussy is to keep it enjoyable.

Communicate And Ask Her What She Likes

Preferences of women vary widely when it comes to oral sex. Your girl may enjoy the tongue licking her clitoris but absolutely hate the suction. Or it may be the other way around. It’s awesome if she likes both techniques, but talk to her and ask what works best.

If you’re doing something and she’s moaning pleasurably, don’t. stop. Seriously, that would be the dumbest time to stop and ask for her opinion. But overall, yeah, keep the lines of communication open and ask her what she likes and what works best for her.

You can also compliment her on how amazing her pussy looks, and how well it smells and tastes. Everyone likes compliments, so give them out freely.

Adding More Pleasure As You Eat Her Pussy

Here’s how you can make eating pussy more fun and pleasurable for her:

Finger Her While Eating Pussy

If your mouth is at work, your hands can be put to good use at another place. You can add more pleasure by providing both external and internal stimulation. While your mouth works on her clitoris, use your hands to finger her. Some of these positions may be awkward, so use discretion and take a position that is comfortable and pleasurable.

You don’t necessarily have to limit yourself to your fingers. Grab hold of a vibrator and use it to pleasure her internally while your work your magic on her clitoris. If she’s okay with it, you can use a finger to stimulate her anus externally or internally.

Make Use Of Your Tongue

Obviously, your tongue is capable of doing much more than the basic technique above suggested. Use it! Use it for pinpointed stimulation, massage her clitoris with it, and lick her pussy. Experiment with your tongue and see how well she reacts to it. If you find an encouraging response, continue doing what you were doing. If there is no positive indication, move on to other techniques.

Ask Her To Join In

The receiver can be an active participant as you eat her pussy. A simple method is for her to give you clear, verbal directions. Where to put pressure, what to do, and how fast to move. If oral sex alone is proving insufficient in making her cum, she can also join in on the fun and masturbate herself by using her fingers. Or, she can use her fingers to move her labia out of the way while your tongue and lips work on her clitoris.

How To Eat Pussy — Final Words

Learning how to eat pussy and how to lick a pussy is very simple. For a small investment of your time in learning, and in devoting some time to eating pussy the right way, you could dramatically increase the pleasure she feels. She will enjoy it more and sex life will be amazing for both of you.

Your pleasure is in your hands — figuratively and literally. There are tons of ways to pleasure yourself, but it helps to know how to properly do it using your own hands. Learning how to finger yourself the right way makes things more convenient, and ensures stunning orgasms are always at your hands (teehee). No more puns, I promise. In this guide, I’m going to talk about amazing techniques on how to make yourself cum. By the way, mastering techniques on how to make yourself orgasm also opens the doors to those mind-blowing squirting orgasms.

Prepare Yourself — Things To Do Before You Start

Before you sail into the sunset on the boat of ridiculously good orgasms, here’s a small checklist of things to do.

1. Wash Your Hands

I know, this isn’t something you need to be told, but put it on your checklist anyway. Being in the moment and in a hurry to make yourself cum, there’s a good chance you might decide to skip this step. Don’t. Our hands touch a lot of things during the course of the day and may be covered in bacteria. No point taking those things anywhere near your vagina.

2. Hygiene!

Take a look under your nails. Everything neat and tidy? Awesome. The space under the nails can be full of all kinds of grisly stuff, we don’t want it. I know we keep it clean, but it doesn’t hurt to double check! In fact, while you’re at it, cut those nails. If you’re starting, its best not to risk any cuts or stabs from those nails. Best to keep on the safe side.

3. Relax And Put Yourself In The Mood

While you work on techniques on how to have an orgasm with yourself, work a bit on how to treat yourself. Orgasms are much more intense if you start relaxed. Do what you like to put yourself in a relaxed mood, and pamper yourself a bit. Take a shower, have a glass of wine, play music to set the mood – whatever works for you. Once you’re done setting up the atmosphere, get on with some play. Perhaps also use a vibrator to get yourself in the mood.

The point of doing all this is to get yourself aroused. If you know what works best to put you in the mood, do that. Being aroused makes fingering yourself easier, and also helps bring on amazing orgasms. Foreplay is important, even if you’re playing with yourself.

How To Finger Yourself — Basic Technique For Starters

It’s best to start simple. For this technique, simply move your hand slowly down the stomach, until your fingers reach the clitoris. Play with your clitoris and labia (the fleshy folds of skin around the vagina) a bit, and you’ll soon notice you’re getting wet. This is a natural lubricant and will help your fingers go in smoothly. You can also employ pillow humping to get the juices flowing.

Once you feel you’re ready, slowly take a finger to the vagina and see how it feels. Push the finger in slightly, and then bring it out. Repeating this motion will cover the finger in the natural lubricant, and you will find it goes in deeper without much trouble. This doesn’t mean you should forego the use of lubricants; it’s okay to add some artificial lube to help things along.

As your finger goes in deeper and feels comfortable, start exploring the walls of your vagina with the finger. Turn the finger around, massage the interior of your vagina, do whatever feels right. Pleasure is how you like it, so do whatever works best. Keep in mind, your goal is not to go in as deep as possible. The goal is to find pleasure, so move your finger to where you find the best sensation.

How To Finger Your G-Spot

Once you’ve found the way to fingering yourself and deriving pleasure, it’s time to aim for the jackpot. And by jackpot, I obviously mean the toe-curling orgasms that fingering the g-spot can bring. In case you’re not sure where you g-spot is, check out this guide on how to find your g-spot.

As you enter your finger into the vagina, move it along the anterior wall (stomach-side), and you will soon find your finger has reached a very pleasurable spot. The spot feels slightly different than the vaginal wall and almost has the same texture as the palate of your mouth. It is soft, with tiny ridges.

If you’ve reached it, rejoice, girl, because you’ve just hit the jackpot button of how to give yourself an orgasm. Once at the g-spot, you can try curling your finger in the “come here” motion. It’s known to work well in pleasuring the g-spot. That’s why we even have vibrators like the Ina Wave with come hither motion.

Move your finger on the g-spot the way you like it and enjoy the waves of pleasure. Pro tip: the g-spot usually responds better to soft, gentle pressure and massage, which brings us to the next technique.

Pressure Pressing Technique Of Fingering

As I said earlier, your g-spot is on the stomach-side wall of the vagina. Some women may find it difficult to put enough pressure or find the previous method inadequate or difficult in putting enough pressure on their g-spot directly. In such cases, the simplest solution is to put some pressure on the g-spot from the other side!

Reach and massage your g-spot as you normally would. While you’re fingering the g-spot, put the other hand facing down, palm placed on the pubis mons. Now put pressure on this hand, and you will notice that the g-spot becomes more prominent.

Go A Different Route

Fingering doesn’t have to be all about the g-spot. Take a different route to arrange how your fingers enter your vagina. Rather than going through the stomach, put your arm behind your back, so your hand goes over your anus and then into the vagina.

In this position, you will be stimulating the posterior wall of the vagina, opposite to where the g-spot is. Many women find this position pleasurable and a nice change of pace. Most women however, would perhaps prefer sticking to g-spot stimulation. While in this position, you might also consider putting a finger into the anus (if that’s your thing). Many women find the combo immensely pleasurable.

Add Clitoral Stimulation With Fingering

While you’re fingering, you’ve got a free hand doing nothing. Well, grab hold of a nice clitoral vibrator and put it to use. If you don’t have a vibrator available, using the hand for clitoral stimulation will work just as good. The double pleasure should push you over the edge rather quickly.

Working On The G-Spot With Your Fingers

The tips of your fingers will be doing most of the work, so it’s best to know where to place them and how to go about things. The general technique is obviously to slowly massage and caress parts of your vagina. If you’re dealing with the g-spot, here are some tips to work the magic deeper:

Gentle Pressure

The g-spot does like itself some pressure. Put gentle, consistent pressure on the g-spot. Pressing and holding the g-spot can be quite pleasurable, though the same technique won’t work on other parts of the vagina. Once you’ve got the gentle pressure covered, experiment a bit and maybe try pressing the g-spot in quick movements like a button.

Come Here Motion

An amazing way to pleasure the g-spot while fingering yourself is using the “come here” motion. Once your finger is at the g-spot, curl it backwards like you would when calling someone. Do a few flicks of the move, going from top to bottom.

Massaging And Rubbing

Another incredible sensation comes from running the finger in a circle on the g-spot. Choose the speed and intensity you prefer, and while keeping a consistent pressure, run your finger in circles on the g-spot. You will be rubbing and massaging the g-spot at the same time.

Experiment To Your Pleasure

Use any of the above techniques, use all of them, do whatever you like. It’s your body and you know what works best for your body. At a personal level, you have to be aware, and be willing to experiment with what you know. I can say the best feeling comes when I know how to finger myself. That makes things better because I can direct any sex toys I use or my partner to what I find pleasurable. And if I run into a dry spell, well, at least I know how to make myself orgasm!

How To Finger Yourself — Final Words

Learning how to finger yourself allows you to take control of your orgasms. I am a proponent of using sex toys, and they are amazing. Sometimes though, it is rewarding to let the toys stay in their drawer while I work my fingers. It’s also useful when there are no toys at hand. But most importantly, it gives you an understanding of your body that toys just can’t. The way I see it, knowing how to make yourself cum is a basic skill, and there is absolutely no reason to overlook it.

Dildos are available in all sorts of shapes, sizes, and colors. They usually don’t have motors or electric power like vibrators do, but if you know your way around a dildo, it will offer mountains of pleasure. Like all things sex, it’s the technique that matters. Knowing how to use a dildo can be very effective. Whether you are a newcomer looking to learn the ropes, or an advanced user, I’ve got something for you in this article.

Prepping Up — Things To Do Before You Use A Dildo

Choose A Dildo That’s Right For You

Knowing how to use a dildo starts with selecting a dildo that works for you. Or even one that you assume will work for you. If you’re just starting up, start with something non-intimidating like the Lelo Ella. Or just let your imagination run wild and choose the dildo that catches your fancy. There are plenty of designs available, so you will easily find something that works for your needs.

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Choose dildos made from non-porous and body-safe materials. While porous materials do offer some flexibility, these sex toys are tough to clean and can put your health at risk. If you must use a porous sex toy, use it with a condom.

Inspect The Dildo

Before you let the dildo anywhere near your privates inspect it to ensure it has no sharp edges, cuts, or tears. Also, make sure it does not smell bad. If it does smell, clean it thoroughly before use.

Set The Mood

Take a shower, have a cup of wine, and lighten up a bit. Set the mood and ambiance, like you would for sex. Enjoy some foreplay to get yourself in the mood. It might be worthwhile to get some clitoral stimulation, either by using a bullet vibrator or by pillow humping. If you’re not in the mood for that, try some good old-fashioned fingering. The point is to get yourself aroused and your natural lubrication going. More you are aroused, the more you will enjoy the act.

Use Lubricant

Even if you have natural lubricant going well, use a lubricant. Water-based lubricant is a safe bet and can be used with practically all materials.

Anal Use

If you intend to use the dildo anally, make sure it has a flared base so it does not completely enter the rectum. Also, dildos used anally should not be used in the vagina unless they are covered with a condom.

Most of these requirements are quite similar to those when choosing a vibrator. Read my guide on how to use a vibrator for more ideas and tips.

How To Use A Dildo — Things To Do

Start Slow

Don’t push the dildo into the vagina. Start by playing yourself a bit. You can use the dildo to stimulate your clitoris and nipples before moving to the vagina. Start with small thrusts, gradually pushing the dildo in. Do not force it. You should not feel pain or discomfort at any point during this exercise. We’re sticking to pleasure.

Insert And Thrust

As your dildo goes deeper into the vagina, start putting more focus into thrusting and rhythm. Experiment with your speed and rhythm to find one that works best for you. If you are aiming for the g-spot with the dildo, you can give up on thrusting with speed, and focus on slow massage and consistent pressure. Do it properly, and the g-spot will reward you with a squirting orgasm! Experiment with speed, rhythm, and pressure to find the setting that works best for you.

Mix It Up With Clitoral Stimulation

Many dildos include an appendage for clitoral stimulation (like rabbit vibrators). It is perhaps better to use your own free hand, or a clitoral vibrator to stimulate the clitoris while the dildo works its magic inside the vagina. The dual stimulation can bring powerful, toe-curling orgasms.

Tips And Techniques When Using A Dildo

There’s more to using a dildo than simple thrusting and applying pressure. Here are some techniques on how to use a dildo that you can employ for more pleasure.

Shallow Thrusts

A lot of nerve endings can be accessed near the vaginal opening, up to about one-third of the way into the vagina. Use this relatively high density of nerve endings to your advantage, and give the dildo some quick and shallow thrusts. Do not aim for deep penetration, but quick movement is the key to pleasure here.

Rock It

Skip the routine of thrusting and get more out of your dildo. Move it up/down or in any direction you prefer. You may choose to quit thrusting and instead move the dildo up and down to mimic a motion similar to grinding. It will be as pleasurable as thrusting. You will also enjoy the added advantage of some clitoral stimulation, and stimulation around the vaginal opening.

Let It Stay With The Filling Feel

If you are using a sufficiently sized dildo, you will experience a filling and comfortable feeling while the dildo is inserted. It may not be much for thrusting, but you don’t really need it. Let the dildo stay in its position and enjoy the feeling. Stimulate your clitoris for orgasm, and you will find the dildo enhances the orgasm while simply staying in its place.

How To Use A Dildo — Conclusion

Experimentation and maintaining your sex toy clean are two points you must take away when learning how to use a dildo. Dildos are available in all kinds of shapes and sizes, so find one that’s comfortable for you. If you have some experience, pick a toy that appeals to your imagination. Use the tips and tricks above to get the most out of using your dildo, and continue to enjoy it some more!

Forced Orgasm is a type of kinky play where the dominant partner takes control of the submissive partner’s orgasm. It is important to understand that forced orgasms are a part of the BDSM scene and are consensual in the sense that the parties involved have willingly agreed to the act. Due to the very nature of the act, a forced orgasm is also called Consensual Non-Consent. It’s a deeply erotic play, especially for those into kinky stuff and BDSM scenes. If you enjoy BDSM, taking a shot at forced orgasm can be fruitful.

What Is A Forced Orgasm?

In the forced orgasm scene, there is a dominant partner and a submissive partner. The submissive partner gives up control over their own orgasms, which is then handled by the dominant partner. Orgasms are considered to be an involuntary reaction. Which means given enough stimulation, any person will orgasm, whether they want to, or not.

Forced orgasms are different than involuntary orgasms. Forced orgasms mean that both parties have an explicit understanding and are consenting, willing parties. An involuntary orgasm, however, is a violation that may happen to victims of sexual assault or rape.

Forced Orgasm Play And Scene

Forced orgasm scene is a kink that requires preparation. Simply having partners take on roles of a dominant and submissive is not enough. You will also need some bondage equipment to keep the submissive in control. The submissive can be either male or female, however the female as submissive is more common, given that there are more ways to play this kink with a female submissive.

At its simplest, the forced orgasm play is a battle of wits between the dominant and the submissive. The dominant stimulates the submissive with the ultimate goal of bringing them to an orgasm. The submissive on his/her part, may be directed to try and mentally block the orgasm. Of course, the dominant will win eventually, but the battle of wits on how to force orgasm is what makes this more appealing.

Forced Orgasm Scene Variations

Now that we’re done with the simple scene, it’s time to look at the variations. Sometimes, the dominant may deny an orgasm to the submissive. This is achieved by continuously bringing the submissive close to orgasm, but then denying them that orgasm. If the submissive has been directed to request for permission before they orgasm, believe me, they will start begging for the orgasm very soon. The technique is deeply primal, and the desire to orgasm will grow extremely strong in the submissive partner.

While the dominant may continue to deny orgasms for whatever time period they prefer, their ultimate goal is to force orgasm on the submissive.

In some instances, the dominant may choose to (eventually) allow the submissive to orgasm. However, they may also decide to follow with multiple forced orgasms. That means they just don’t stop stimulating the submissive, forcing them to have one orgasm after the other. Pretty soon, the submissive who was earlier requesting to orgasm will start begging to be stopped from more orgasms.

Props And Bondage In Forced Orgasm

During forced orgasm scenes, the submissive is usually tied up to limit their movement. This is important simply because as the orgasm starts to build up, the submissive partner may find it way too difficult to control themselves and choose to masturbate by themselves to have an orgasm.

You can use custom gear or simple, silken ties to hold the submissive partner into place. If you are experienced enough, you can bring in more props like whips and canes. Another great trick is to use blindfolds on the submissive, creating an element of mystery, and thus heightening other senses of your partner.

Use The Vibrator

If the submissive is female, don’t forget to bring vibrators into play! Wand vibrators are usually a favorite, especially powerful vibrators like the Magic Wand Original. The vibrator is used to stimulate the clitoris, bringing her to the point of orgasm several times. And each time, the orgasm is denied. The magic wand is quick, powerful, and when the time is right, it will bring on a very strong and satisfying orgasm.

You don’t have to be limited to vibrators. You may also use your fingers, or perform cunnilingus to get her going. If the submissive is a male, the same task is handled by employing blowjobs and handjobs. You may use the vibrator on the male submissive too, though its effect will likely be less than that on females. However, the sensation of pleasure is unmistakable.

If the dominant is aiming for multiple orgasms, it is best to have the female as the submissive. Most guys are not capable of having multiple orgasms, and those that can, usually need to have a small break between orgasms. Most women are capable of multiple orgasms through clitoral stimulation. Some may need time after an orgasm, so playing the multiple orgasm scene may not work best.

Talk And Set Boundaries, Limits, And Safe Words

Before you start off, have a serious conversation with your partner on how to have a forced orgasm. You will need to set up ground rules. Decide how far it is okay to go, and when it is time to stop. Having a safe word and gesture is also important, so the partners can know when to reel themselves back or to end the play.

Your safe word and/or gesture should be something obvious and must be clearly understood by both partners. Similarly, set limits on the language to be used as well. The dominant or submissive person may exchange words during the forced orgasm act, and some dirty talking could be employed. It’s best to be clear about what words are off-limits and must never be said during the play.

Forced Orgasm Through Masturbation

While it won’t be as effective or as intense, you can have some semblance of a forced orgasm even as an individual. The idea stays the same — you will deny yourself an orgasm, while continuously reaching it and repeating the cycle. You will eventually orgasm because the primal needs of the body take over, forcing you to complete the orgasm and masturbation.

Forced Orgasm — Conclusion

The buildup and the eventual release for a forced orgasm are amazing. It is a kinky play, a part of BDSM and definitely will require some practice before you’re ready. Forced orgasm as a play is intense and requires the submissive person to put themselves deeply in the power of the dominant person. It goes beyond physical aspects like bondage and takes on a deeper tone with the control over orgasms. Set up rules, and make the best of the intense forced orgasm play.

Even though most of us limit it to a private and intimate group, who doesn’t like to brag about their sexual prowess? Some people on the other hand, go ahead and get their sexual success recorded for the world to see. The records are sometimes bizarre, sometimes impressive, but these sex world records never fail to elicit curiosity and attention. Without further ado, I present to you some of the weirdest sex records the world has known.

1. The Longest Penis And Shortest Penis World Records

Does size matter? For most cases, I’d say no but sometimes it’s just unavoidable. I’m sure size does matter for the record holders of the world’s longest penis and world’s shortest penis.

The world’s longest penis belongs to American actor Jonah Falcon. His 13.5-inch penis has brought him interest from adult filmmakers as well as TV producers. Apparently his penis once also caused a security alert at San Francisco airport. We can only imagine the jaws dropping and color rising on the face of security personnel as they realized what leviathan had triggered the alert. While there are other claimants to the title, the Guinness Records still recognizes Jonah Falcon. Presumably, because no one wants to stand up to (tee-hee) a penis that causes security alerts at airports.

On the other end of the penis size spectrum is silent, anonymous record holder for the world’s shortest penis. The world’s smallest penis has been recorded at 0.39 inches (0.9cms).

2. World Record Orgasm — Longest Male Orgasm

What could be the longest distance a male ejaculation would cover? If you’re thinking it could go longer than a stretch limousine, you are absolutely correct. Horst Schultz holds the record for the longest male orgasm, with his ejaculate recorded to travel 6 meters (18ft, 9in.). It’s interesting to note someone decided to point out that Mr. Schultz’s ejaculation traveled more than the length of a stretch limo. Meanwhile, one random dude sitting in the back seat of his car looks very unsure of his plans for tonight.

On a related note, Mr. Schultz also holds the record for fastest moving ejaculate, with his sperm traveling at a top speed of 42.7 mph. I guess you gotta get some serious acceleration to travel the world record orgasm distance.

3. World Record Orgasm — Most Orgasms In One Hour

Many people would count their stars lucky and happily say their expected most orgasms in a day is one… well, maybe two if you’re lucky. This woman has you beat, not just in terms of hours, but she wins hands down in numbers as well. Doctors at the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in California have a female orgasm record for a woman who had 134 orgasms in an hour.

I don’t know if that number could be called enjoyable, but here it is any way for you to decide for yourselves. Males, on the other hand, don’t seem to have much by way of numbers per hour, and the largest recorded number is 16 orgasms for a dude in one hour.

Women also lead for the title of longest recorded orgasm. In 1966, a woman had an orgasm that lasted about 45 seconds and included 25 individual contractions… now that’s quality!

4. World Record For Most Sexual Partners In 24 Hours

Sex world record for the most sexual partners in 24 hours belongs to porn star Lisa Sparks. Apparently, the actress decided to make the most of the 2004 World Gangbang Championship and created a record worthy of the championship. Lisa recorded having sex with an impressive number of 919 men in the 24 hours of the championship.

5. Biggest Collection Of Penises

Why would anyone go around collecting dongs? I don’t know, but apparently, it can turn out to be quite a popular draw for tourists. The world’s largest collection of phallic objects is on display at Icelandic Phallological Museum in Reykjavik, Iceland. Over 300 penises adorn the shelves of this museum, which has managed to gain international fame (and notoriety). Apparently, the museum also houses a penis that once actually part of a human.

6. The World’s Longest Kiss

Thai couple Ekkachai and Laksana Tiranarat are the record holders for the world’s longest kiss. This couple locked lips for 58 hours, 35 minutes, and 58 seconds. While obviously setting a world record, the couple also won a local Valentine’s Day “Kissathon”. The numbers are impressive, but we must also celebrate the patience, love, and romance that went into letting the couple stay smooching for such a long time.

7. World’s Largest Natural Breasts

You can’t write about sex world records without ever mentioning tits! The world’s pair of largest natural breasts belongs to Annie Hawkins-Turner. She has embraced her “gift” and has also given herself the name of Norma Stitz — read it again, and say it out loud to get the meaning! Miss Norma Stitz has enormous tits measuring 102ZZZ and weighing 89 pounds!

In comparison, the largest pair of artificial breasts belongs to Maxi Mounds. Another obvious reference to her breasts. Her’s are the biggest surgically enhanced breasts in America and the world. Maxi Mounds’ precious mounds fit into a US 42M bra.

Weird Sex World Records — Conclusion

The world is full of amazement and weird wonders. These sex world records take the form of being amazing and sometimes, so alarming, it would be tough to imagine something like these records ever happened! Some entries on this list are on the unbelievable side, but personally, I find it amazing that such sex records were set. You know what they say — records are meant to be broken.

Generally, women are seen as being submissive in bed. However, there is no reason for staying stuck in the submissive position. Changing roles from being submissive to dominant, is a great way to spice up your sex life. In the same vein, if you are the dominant woman in bed, you should sometimes encourage him to take the reins and try some kinky sex positions with the dominant male. Here are some tips and tricks to help you along the way as you learn how to be more dominant in bed.

Becoming A Dominant Woman Is A Process

Going from submissive to dom woman is not a switch you flick. Give it some time as you work your way. Once you are comfortable with both roles (dominant and submissive), you will be able to “switch” from one role to the other with relative ease, but until then, go easy.

When wondering how to be dominant in the bedroom, most women make the mistake of thinking they need to make massive and drastic changes. Suddenly getting aggressive and assertive might end up freaking him out. Start small, and maybe hold off on breaking out the handcuffs and props just yet.

Take Initiative As The Dominant Woman

A simple way to have dominant sex is to initiate it. Take charge. Kiss your partner when he least expects it. Flirt, and drop hints of what you plan to do. Hold his hand and take him to the bedroom and initiate sex or oral sex. The dom woman is confident about what she wants and is direct in her demands. It’s a great thing to do in the moment and does not require any planning to execute.

Talk To Your Partner

Communicating is an essential part of any relationship, including the times where you take on the role of a dominant woman. Let your partner know you want to try something new. Tell him you will take control of the bedroom, and you expect him to comply. If you are already in the bedroom, this would be a great time to direct him to go down on you. As he starts, use your hands to guide him to exactly where you want him to focus.

Most men would be delighted at the prospect. If things are smooth and you are dominant in the bedroom, this would also be a great time to have a conversation about boundaries and consent, so neither of you gets carried away while playing the dominant partner.

In case your partner does not agree or tries to throw up serious barriers to stop you from taking control, sit him down and have a frank conversation about what you want. Your learning how to be dominant does not have to be a tug of war for power in the relationship, and your partner should understand that.

Use Authoritative Language And Give Them Commands

Don’t just think of dominating physically, but do it verbally as well. Convey your wishes in a clear, firm language. You do not need to be apologetic or give explanations. If you are only starting to learn how to dominate a man, it would perhaps be useful to first practice in front of a mirror when alone, so you can be direct and authoritative later.

Once you’ve got the authoritative language in control, play the role of a dominant woman and give your partner clear commands. For example, you can “command” your partner to take off his clothes, or to perform oral sex on you. You can also lay down rules for what he can, or cannot do. For example, forbid him from touching you during the act.

If your partner tries to assert control, tell them with authority that you are in charge and they should follow your directions.

The Dominant Woman Can Punish

As the dominant female, you have the right to dole out punishment if your partner does not obey your orders. The punishment can be anything you find suitable, but it must display your authority and be within the boundaries and conditions you’ve discussed with your partner. An example of this would be to go reverse of strip poker and start putting on clothes for every act of defiance. Or, you could move your body away from them. Be creative and assertive. The punishment should encourage obedience and be playful (within the means of a dom woman).

Sex Positions That Put The Dominant Woman In Control

A simple route to being a woman dominant on the bed is to take a sex position that puts you in control. You control the pacing, thrusting, and movement. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to do feats of strength. You could simply choose a position like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl to take more control. If you are both comfortable, you can give the Amazon Sex Position a try.

Speaking of sex positions, you can also straddle his head between your thighs while he lies on the bed. It’s a power position for the woman, but be careful not to smother him. Do not put weight on his face, and give him enough room to breathe as he performs cunnilingus and recognizes the authority of the dom woman.

Dress The Part

You’ve seen how a dom woman or dominatrix dresses — there’s plenty of images and media all around. You can pick up a nice and sexy dress to play the role of the dominant woman. Knowing your partner’s preference in dressing can be a huge plus. You can work off your partner’s fantasies to set the mood and use the right outfit.

If you’re not sure what to wear, but can be authoritative and confident, just wear your birthday suit. Being naked doesn’t mean you let your partner touch you or go straight to sex. You’ve still got the role of the dom woman. Make him work for it!

Know Your Preference As A Dominant Woman

Domination does not necessarily have to include props like handcuffs, whips, or tying your partner down. Most people are perfectly satisfied with simple play and dominant sexual positions. That is a separate, though conjoined realm of BDSM. You could know all about how to be a dominant female without ever going into the domain of BDSM. Here’s a quick primer on some popular domination methods that are used.

Bondage

As the name implies, Bondage is all about physically restraining your partner. You could accomplish this by tying your partner or using another method to limit their movement. It can be as simple as tying his hands, and as complex as utilizing customized bondage gear to serve your needs.

Discipline

A Dominatrix must ensure she always has control. Should your man break your rules, you will have to “discipline” or punish him. Discipline as an act is based more on punishment, and can be psychological or physical. You could use your hands or even props like paddles and whips for punishment.

Sadism

Sadism is different than the previously mentioned preferences, in that it derives sexual pleasure from the act of inflicting pain on your partner. It may seem similar to the “Discipline” aspect above, but that one is far more mild as compared to sadism.

How To Be A Dominant Woman — Conclusion

If you have not tried to dominate in your sexual relationship, it is time to give it a try. Learning how to be a dominant woman requires some work, and understanding between you and your partner. It’s a process that takes some time as you learn and experience, gaining confidence and knowledge. A dominatrix is more than commanding, she is sensual and sexy. Play your part well and enjoy the fruits of a spicy sex life.