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(Last Updated On: October 9, 2022)

‍There is a lot of mystery around kissing and it’s not surprising. After all, there are very few occasions when most people get to practice on real people. In movies or books, you will find many characters kissing each other but it is not something that we see happening in real life as often as one would desire. In real life, if you ask someone how to do the perfect kissing, they will simply giggle at you rather than give you a detailed answer. But the truth is that kissing can be pretty magical if done right. Get it wrong and the kisser will feel very awkward indeed and one thing you don’t want to do is to kiss like you are about to swallow her, that will be a bad rep, don’t you think! 

Here are some tips on how to do kissing right:

Make sure you are both ready to kiss

First of all, you need to make sure that the other person is ready to kiss you, there is no point asking to kiss someone if they’re not already in the mood. If they want to kiss you, they’ll do it. Otherwise, just wait.  In the heat of the moment, things can get out of hand if you are not ready to kiss someone. This can cause discomfort and can even ruin the mood completely. If you are not sure if the other person is ready to kiss, look for signs. If they are facing you, look at their eyes. If they are not looking at you or looking away quickly, it means they are not ready to kiss you. You can ask them to look at you while you are getting ready to kiss them. If they are facing away from you, you can get them to turn towards you by gently pulling their arm towards you. Kissing is like a drug. It can get both of you high, feel amazing and leave you wanting more, that is if you get it right though…

Know who is going to be kissing who

While you are thinking about if the other person is ready to kiss you, you also need to think about who is going to be kissing who. Men should always initiate kissing ladies and ladies should initiate kissing other ladies. Kissing should be done by the person who is less dominant and more submissive in a relationship. For example, if you are dating someone who is older than you, you should be the one kissing them. The older person should be the one being kissed by the younger person. If you don’t know who is going to be kissing who, you could end up kissing the wrong person. This can cause a lot of awkwardness, especially if you were expecting to kiss someone else. If you kissed the wrong person, you could try and laugh it off by saying “oops!”, but it can still be pretty embarrassing.

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Look at each other and do not be in a rush

While you are getting ready to kiss someone, you should look at them. Looking at the person while you are kissing them helps you to connect with them on a deeper level. It is a very intimate thing to do and it allows you to feel a very strong bond with the other person. There are different ways to look at the person. The first way is to look into their eyes. This is a very intimate and intense way to look at someone and is best for romantic relationships and married couples. Another way to look at someone is to look at the space between their eyebrows and their upper eyelids. This way of looking allows you to look at the person without staring them in the eyes. This is a good way to look at someone when you are getting ready to kiss them for the first time.

couple looking into each other's eyes

Don’t have too much saliva

Another thing to make sure of while you are kissing someone is that you don’t have too much saliva in your mouth. Saliva needs to be there in the right amount or else the kissing will be uncomfortable for both of you. If you have too much saliva in your mouth while kissing someone, you can swallow it down or try to let it out. You can do this by sighing or by saying “oops” while kissing the person. You can also press your lips together firmly and suck in the saliva through your lips. All of these ways of getting rid of the saliva will cause you to break the kiss for a few seconds. This is normal and you can quickly get back to kissing the person, we are sure your partner will understand

As a bonus tip, if you find that you have excess saliva, try humming. This will keep your mouth closed for a few moments and help prevent constant monitoring of your mouth’s salivary level.

Don’t grind your teeth together

The first kiss can be nerve-wracking. But you don’t want to mess it up by grinding your teeth against your partner’s mouth. It feels like you’re trying to tear their lips off, and can be painful. Luckily, there are a few things you can do to help combat this problem

The key to locking lips with someone and not grinding your teeth? It’s all about the nose. After all, what have noses been created for? The obvious answer is breathing—but that’s not the only reason our noses exist above our lips. It’s all about relaxation, a little breathing and just enjoying the moment

As you plant a kiss on your partner’s lips, don’t forget to keep your teeth off of the skin. While you may be feeling quite excited and passionate, your teeth can get dangerously close to biting into their mouth thanks to your nerves getting the best of you. To ensure that this doesn’t happen, open up your mouth a bit wider as you press your tongue against the roof of your mouth. This will also help to relax you for more and deeper kisses. If this little tip doesn’t work out for you, try breathing through your nose as you plant kisses down on the skin. While it may be necessary to wipe a runny nose somewhere when this starts to happen, it is better than having someone go home with a painful bite mark in their lip or cheek!

A loving kiss is the bearer of love, but the wrong kiss might give out a different message. Or in other words, your partner will be confused whether you love or hate them.

Introduce the tongue slowly

couple kissing passionately

There is nothing worse than a bad kisser. It can make someone feel awkward, which is never a good feeling. So the best way to avoid that is to be careful when you’re kissing someone new. There are two basic rules of thumb when it comes to kissing: First, don’t try to force your tongue into their mouth. It’s too big, and they might bite it off. Second, don’t use too much tongue or lick their face all over. These are things that should be done sparingly and respectfully. If you’re not comfortable with the way your partner is kissing you, then gently let them know that you’d like to change something. If they don’t seem interested in adjusting things, then it might be time to move on. And hopefully by keeping these tips in mind, you’ll find someone who is willing and able to give a great French kiss!

Don’t suffocate each other with the hug

While you are kissing someone, make sure that you don’t suffocate them with your hug. You don’t want to be so close to the other person that they cannot breathe properly. When kissing someone, try to stay about an arms-length away from them. You can also try to gently rest your hands on the person’s back. If you hug someone too tightly and they try to get away from you, you can let them go gently but still keep the kiss going. If you hug someone too tightly, they can try to break the kiss by pulling away from you a little bit and then gently pushing you away. This can be a little bit awkward, and it can be better to let go of the person completely.

Couple kissing

That’s it!

Well, that’s what you need to know about how to do kissing right. It is a pretty simple trick and you don’t need to be romantic or poetic about it at all. There is no one way to do it right. The only thing that matters is that you don’t do anything weird or gross while you are doing it! That’s all we have for you here. Hopefully, now you know how to do the perfect kissing. And if you don’t, there’s no better time to start than now!

Also as a last note, Make sure you’ve got enough life insurance to cover the cost of your mistake. 

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